What will it take to get it through to you, precious?

[obliviousally_lj]

Dear Bob,

Stop being a fucking unwarranted jackass to my girlfriend. I don't know what your goddamn issue is, but keep it on your goddamn side of the living room. If you two are having a goddamn spat, DON'T FUCKING TALK TO EACH OTHER. DON'T GO OUT OF YOUR GODDAMN WAY TO FUCKING INSULT HER ON TAPESTRIES. Don't even fucking acknowledge her existence if you want. Stop making her cry, stop putting her down with your bullshit comments, stop trying to make yourself try to be the 'bigger' man.

I'm sick of your fucking petty, childish bullshit. You're a fucking 23 YEAR OLD MAN. But fuck if I can ever tell, your fucking attitude is like that of a six year old boy who's had his toys taken away.

Grow the fuck up, leave my girlfriend the fuck alone.

Love, Ally.

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[justplainbob.livejournal.com]

You know the sad part about this entire entry?

I have no fucking clue what you're talking about.

[obliviousally.livejournal.com]

KeeperOfDreams thinks she -is- the entire monster population... "Nah, actual monsters. Creepy, flesh-rending beasts, things that go bump in the night!"

Yin says, "And yet, you somehow manage to avoid scaring anyone." Yin says, "Other than yourself whenever a mirror finds its way in front of you, that is."

[justplainbob.livejournal.com]

Oh, for fuck's sake. That? That wasn't me directed at her, that was Yin direc... You know, this conversation isn't even worth it. If y'all are getting worked up over an off-the-cuff, throwaway remark on a roleplaying server, I think that that you're taking things a little too seriously.

[obliviousally.livejournal.com]

Y'know what? At this point, it doesn't even matter. It's been this...the household has been in this violent act of circling the drain for the last few months anyhow.

I'm sick of your 'off-the-cuff' comments making my girlfriend feel like shit. I don't give a fuck if it's on Tapestries, or if it's in real life, because you ACT THE SAME IN BOTH PLACES. There is, quite literally, no difference between you and your characters.

[justplainbob.livejournal.com]

Without getting into the reasoning behind the way I run my characters the way I do, let's get a few things straight.

One, I keep the two seperate, even if I happen to act the same there as I do in real life. This is because of something I recognize as the 'divide between the virtual and the real.' This is something most of us learn around the age of eight or so, when we figure out that what happens in our minds is not always what's happening out in the real world.

Two, if your girlfriend can't handle the off-the-cuff comments, then she damned well better stop injecting herself into conversations I'm having with you, not her. Example: earlier today, about keeping the heat turned down. If she's going to be snarky at me, then I'm damned well going to return the favor, because I hit back just as, if not harder, as I get hit. Backing down ain't my thing, and I ain't starting it now, not for you, her or anyone else.

Three, I'll take my share of blame for this place going down a swirling hellhole. I'm honest enough to recognize that I'm an arrogant, stubborn son of a bitch who's disinclined to change. Not that you're entirely blameless, mind you, given that every fucking time I've tried to change or adapt to accommodate what you ask for, it's been thrown back in my face in the end. So it's not even worth it to start that argument.

So in summary, lemme put it this way. We're all to blame, and at the rate we're going, there ain't shit that can be done to resolve it. That wrap it up good enough for you?

[dicentrakiss.livejournal.com]

My mind wilts at this thread.
I literally have nothing.
rendered speechless D: