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So, TJ's ready to move. She's been ready to move, but I've been the one holding her back. I rely too much on fate and coincidences, I think. I need to remember to just go for it and not look back.

I think I've been hesitant because I feel secure here. Sure, we run into money issues, but that's life. It's not terrible, we're still eating and we still have a roof over our heads. But then, most things don't bother me. I'm insanely tolerant of just about anything.

We extended the invitation to Angie, if she wants to try it out or even just go for it. But she's declined so far. I can understand her reasoning, so I can't fault her for that. We just both feel bad if we leave her here.

But we've offered. And the offer will probably stand for a good while. I hate leaving good people behind, especially friends. But there's only so much we can do. TJ needs to get out of this state. She needs to be somewhere that's better for her mentally and emotionally.

Regardless, none of this will be happening for months. Probably not until next year, I'd imagine.

Date: 2006-06-07 02:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jabberdragon.livejournal.com
It's the roomie's choice not to go, not yours or TJ's. It's your choice to go with TJ. And she needs to go. You're not running out or abandoning your roomie under any definition. With a little time and effort you both can establish security and comfort wherever you choose to be, 'cause no matter what you've got friends and family (whether blood related or not) all over the place who will help you out.

Date: 2006-06-07 02:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jenova-silver.livejournal.com
It's good to prepare. *nodnod*

*hugs*

Date: 2006-06-07 04:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] kyhwana.livejournal.com
Which state would you go to? XD

Date: 2006-06-07 08:08 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] 5p1ic3.livejournal.com
....Cali? XD

Date: 2006-06-07 04:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] take-walker.livejournal.com
Interestingly, you're exactly like me in that regard. o.o It's refreshing to hear my thoughts coming from someone else's... well, fingers.

At least you have enough forewarning that you can mentally prepare. Right?

Date: 2006-06-09 12:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emoshitrants.livejournal.com
you are not allowed to go.

stephen would miss you

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