Stuff and *INSERT DRAMA LLAMA NOISE HERE*
Nov. 1st, 2005 11:32 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
obliviousally_ljThere's alot of unmentioned DRAMA going on in the house.
TJ feels everyone is ganging up on her because of the way she acts (which has been pretty much drilled into her brain by that fuck of a woman since the day she was born). She's an only child, she's always had her things to herself. She's not the best with dealing with people and she feels like everyone's making her out to be the bad guy when, HEY, everyone sucks sometimes.
Everyone can't seem to comprehend that everyone acts differently to different situations. It's not that I have no spine or that I can't stick up for myself. It's the fact that, when I get angry, I don't think my comments out. I say things that I regret and it only makes things worse. I wait for things to cool down, and then I talk. Because screaming matches accomplish nothing. I'm not big on confrontation, despite be being a headstrong Aries.
And it's not that TJ loathes Angie. It's that Angie really doesn't take as good of care of her animals as she should. When I'M getting fleas because of the cats and because they're SO BAD in the house, that's a sign to go out and pick up some flea stuff. Yes, it is expensive. Yes, it is a pain. But the animals are sufferiing. They have scabs and are pretty miserable because of it.
And no, we can't all get along all of the time. We wouldn't be human if we did. It's not the end of the world for anyone to have a disagreement. We just all need to figure out how everyone works, really. Give everyone space to get over whatever and then it's all peachy keen.
There's alot of other things house-wise I'd like to rant about, but I don't feel they need to be thrown out in the open when they don't involve me.
TJ feels everyone is ganging up on her because of the way she acts (which has been pretty much drilled into her brain by that fuck of a woman since the day she was born). She's an only child, she's always had her things to herself. She's not the best with dealing with people and she feels like everyone's making her out to be the bad guy when, HEY, everyone sucks sometimes.
Everyone can't seem to comprehend that everyone acts differently to different situations. It's not that I have no spine or that I can't stick up for myself. It's the fact that, when I get angry, I don't think my comments out. I say things that I regret and it only makes things worse. I wait for things to cool down, and then I talk. Because screaming matches accomplish nothing. I'm not big on confrontation, despite be being a headstrong Aries.
And it's not that TJ loathes Angie. It's that Angie really doesn't take as good of care of her animals as she should. When I'M getting fleas because of the cats and because they're SO BAD in the house, that's a sign to go out and pick up some flea stuff. Yes, it is expensive. Yes, it is a pain. But the animals are sufferiing. They have scabs and are pretty miserable because of it.
And no, we can't all get along all of the time. We wouldn't be human if we did. It's not the end of the world for anyone to have a disagreement. We just all need to figure out how everyone works, really. Give everyone space to get over whatever and then it's all peachy keen.
There's alot of other things house-wise I'd like to rant about, but I don't feel they need to be thrown out in the open when they don't involve me.
